The Startup Chat with Steli and Hiten
529: Self-Management Is the Best Management
Today on The Startup Chat, Steli and Hiten talk how ...
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Dec 1 2020 1h 30m
Chapter 1 38 sec
About today’s topicChapter 2 41 sec
Why this topic was chosenChapter 3 1 min
Why knowing what you control is super importantChapter 4 13 sec
Why self-managed people are some of the best people to work withChapter 5 58 sec
What self-management meansChapter 6 48 sec
Why you should start with youChapter 7 56 sec
Why you should live a truly good life in front of your childrenChapter 8 10 sec
Steli Efti: And I& like, & that book is going to be two pages. And it& just going to say, & your shit together. Just whatever you want your children& life to look like, make sure you live it in front of them. You& got to tackle your fears. Be honest, grow, learn, be humble. Just live a truly good life in front of them and they& be fine. They& learn everything they need to learn by watching you. There& nothing you need to pretend to do or say to them while privately your shit& fucked up.'& Right? And think, & I read these 20 books about perfect child education. And so, my children truly are going to benefit from this.& Maybe they will a little bit, but if you just don& have your affairs in order, they& not. They& just going to copy your behavior. It& the same thing & Back in the day when I was a kid & I don& know I was for you, but all my uncles would smoke and all of them would forbid their children to smoke. And I always thought that& kind of weird. I was like, & logic is this? They& sitting here in the living room smoking a cigarette.& But then once they saw that one of the kids, when they were 16 smoked in school or something, they had lost their shit, and they were screaming at them. And I& like, & you& smoking as well? How you manage your child? What is this?& So, the same thing. But it& so much easier. It& for all of us. It& so much easier for me to tell you what to do than to do it myself correctly. [crosstalkChapter 9 19 sec
How it’s so much easier to tell people what to doChapter 10 1 min
Steli Efti: Why does your life not apply to this standard? This golden standard of [crosstalkChapter 11 1 min
Hiten Shah: Because I was eating it. Yeah. What do you want me to say? [crosstalkChapter 12 25 sec
The importance of self-managementChapter 13
Hiten Shah: I think there is. Managing Oneself [crosstalkChapter 14 13 sec
The principles of managementChapter 15 22 sec
Hiten Shah: [crosstalkChapter 16 1 hr 20 mins
Hiten Shah: How can I now [crosstalk