Spencer opens the discussion by reiterating Step Two: “[We] came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.” Bruce notes that their discussion is a reflection of their personal experiences..

Personal Narratives of Insanity and Restoration

Both Spencer and Bruce share their personal stories, highlighting their past struggles and how they found a path to sanity. Bruce recalls the powerful impact of realizing his own insanity – living repeatedly with unrealistic expectations from his alcoholic partner. He shares how actionable feedback from a coworker played a crucial role in his self-awareness and subsequent change. Spencer resonates with this, recounting his own experiences of anger and frustration and how they manifested not just at home but also at work.

Finding Serenity Through Fellowship

They discuss the transformative power of fellowships like Al-Anon. Spencer talks about how attending meetings, hearing others' stories, and engaging with the Al-Anon literature provided him with a sense of relief and direction. Bruce echoes these sentiments, sharing his initial misunderstanding that Al-Anon would offer tools to control his qualifier, only to find out that it led to his own healing and understanding.

What is a Higher Power, anyway?

Their conversation explores the concept of a ‘power greater than ourselves' and its significance in the recovery process. This higher power doesn't have to be defined traditionally. Bruce finds support and empathy in various forms of community, acknowledging that serenity and sanity can come from unexpected places. Spencer points out that for many, this ‘power' may start as the collective wisdom of a supportive group rather than a divine entity.

Final Thoughts

Step Two asks us to open our hearts to the possibility that a power greater than ourselves can bring us to sanity. Whether that power is found within the support of a fellowship, through spiritual belief, or in the wisdom of collective experience, it holds the potential to guide us towards a healthier and more serene way of living. Recovery is not a solitary path; it is a journey enriched by the supportive presence of others and the belief in something greater than our individual struggles.

Readings and Links

We read from How Al-Anon Works, Chapter 8, Step 2 section.

In response to a listener question, Spencer also mentioned the book Paths to Recovery.

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Music from the Show

U2 – Running to Stand Still

Depeche Mode – Blasphemous Rumours

Dream Theater – Barstool Warrior

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