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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast

929 Episodes • By Dan Savage • www.savagelovecast.com
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.l ...more
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Savage Lovecast Episode 912
A woman moved into a new house and promptly slept wi... more
Apr 16 2024 52m
Navigating Complex Relationships and Boundaries
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Savage Lovecast Episode 911
A woman's boyfriend wants her to play with his ass. ... more
Apr 9 2024 50m
Listener Comments on Relationship Dynamics
Chapter 1 9 mins
Golden Age of Glory Holes
Chapter 2 10 mins
Sexual Communication and Exploration
Chapter 3 10 mins
Navigating Relationships in Non-Urban Areas
Chapter 4 13 mins
Dealing With Family Dynamics
Chapter 5 5 mins
Parenting and Relationship Advice
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Savage Lovecast Episode 910
A gay man keeps sleeping with non-monogamous, marrie... more
Apr 2 2024 49m
Navigating Emotional Attachment and Relationships
Chapter 1 13 mins
The Return of the Comstock Act
Chapter 2 8 mins
Navigating Teenage Discomfort and Low Libido
Chapter 3 14 mins
Navigating Sexual Desires in Relationships
Chapter 4 5 mins
Navigating Non-Exclusive Relationships
Chapter 5 6 mins
Audience Feedback and Tech Discussions
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Sex & Politics #28: Micro Version
For this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan speaks w... more
Mar 28 2024 20m
Chapter 1 11 mins
Rob Henderson on Luxury Beliefs
Chapter 2 8 mins
Foster Care System Challenges and Adoption
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Savage Lovecast Episode 909
So, is he gay? The evidence: He likes sucking wiener... more
Mar 26 2024 50m
Importance of Relationship Dynamics
Chapter 1 16 mins
Unmet Sexual Needs in Relationship
Chapter 2 6 mins
Navigating Awkward Interactions Between Partners
Chapter 3 14 mins
Managing Relationships With Exes and Partners
Chapter 4 6 mins
Communication Issues in Long Distance Relationship
Chapter 5 6 mins
Online Dating and Sexual Advice
Chapter 6 28 sec
Following Dan Savage and Raina Cohen
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Savage Lovecast Episode 908
You guys! We are in crisis! There are just not enoug... more
Mar 19 2024 53m
Sexual Conflict in Relationship
Chapter 1 10 mins
Sex Scandal and Political Hypocrisy
Chapter 2 5 mins
Navigating Pressure and Pleasure in Sex
Chapter 3 7 mins
Challenges of Modern Dating
Chapter 4 12 mins
Exploring Saline Infusions With Rob Wild
Chapter 5 4 mins
Relationship Exploration and Conflicting Desires
Chapter 6 6 mins
Sexual Compatibility, Kinks, and Commitment
Chapter 7 6 mins
Parental Reconciliation and Menstrual Misconceptions
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Savage Lovecast Episode 907
"Ewww! Blood!" That's what her boyfriend says whenev... more
Mar 12 2024 47m
Wedding Family Drama and Betrayal
Chapter 1 12 mins
Sexual Consent and Safety in Communities
Chapter 2 12 mins
Parental Relationships and Wedding Dilemmas
Chapter 3 10 mins
Navigating an Open Relationship Conflict
Chapter 4 4 mins
Navigating Relationships and Hot Tub Etiquette
Chapter 5 5 mins
Modern Relationship Dynamics and Hierarchy Defense
Chapter 6 43 sec
Hump Film Fest and Savage Love
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Savage Love Episode 906
A 27 year-old divorced woman goes to bars and picks ... more
Mar 5 2024 44m
Listener Comments on SavageLove Says
Chapter 1 10 mins
Humpback Whales and Homosexuality
Chapter 2 13 mins
Navigating Sex and Communication in Dating
Chapter 3 14 mins
Navigating Non-Monogamy and Clingy Dates
Chapter 4 6 mins
Dating, Kink, and Misogyny
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Savage Lovecast Episode 905
A woman's 60 year-old dad has taken in a much younge... more
Feb 27 2024 56m
Leveraging Relationships and Innovation
Chapter 1 13 mins
The Anti-Sex Conservative Movement
Chapter 2 11 mins
Concerns About Dad's Younger Girlfriend
Chapter 3 8 mins
Navigating Kink and Orgasms in Relationships
Chapter 4 5 mins
Shaking Up Sexual Routine in Relationships
Chapter 5 6 mins
Navigating Relationship Uncertainties and Breakups
Chapter 6 10 mins
Neologisms and Boundaries
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Savage Lovecast Episode 904
Why is it always men that are into foot fetishes? An... more
Feb 20 2024 54m
Reignite Intimacy Outside the Bathroom
Chapter 1 11 mins
Protecting Family Structures in Legislation
Chapter 2 16 mins
Gendered Kinks and Fetish Gear
Chapter 3 11 mins
Women Embracing Solo Living
Chapter 4 15 mins
Navigating Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
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Savage Lovecast Episode 903
A hearty Valentine's Day to all of you freaky, perve... more
Feb 13 2024 59m
Valentine's Day Special
Chapter 1 11 mins
Reviewing Couple to Thrupple
Chapter 2 8 mins
Negotiating Sexual Fantasies in Marriage
Chapter 3 9 mins
Navigating Polyamory and Relationship Dynamics
Chapter 4 7 mins
Meta's AI and Personalized Content
Chapter 5 11 mins
AI Porn and Performance Anxiety Impact
Chapter 6 9 mins
Polyamory and Tolly Amory
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Savage Lovecast Episode 902
We are still shocked that Ezra Klein (of the NYT and... more
Feb 6 2024 54m
Raising a Kid Without a Network
Chapter 1 12 mins
Travis Kelsey's Straightness and Conspiracy Theories
Chapter 2 13 mins
Navigating Masculinity at the Gym
Chapter 3 9 mins
Exploring Non-Traditional Family Structures
Chapter 4 5 mins
Exploring Fluidity in Relationships and Parenting
Chapter 5 13 mins
Seeking Friendship Amidst Past Affair Dilemma
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Savage Lovecast Episode 901
"Enough with the poly! " Or so says this gay man, wh... more
Jan 30 2024 52m
Exploring Polyamory and Relationship Backlash
Chapter 1 9 mins
The Future of Relationships and Politics
Chapter 2 8 mins
Navigating Dating Apps and Open Relationships
Chapter 3 12 mins
Challenges of Polyamory and Cheating
Chapter 4 9 mins
Navigating Relationships and Priorities
Chapter 5 6 mins
Considering a Long-Distance Relationship?
Chapter 6 5 mins
Relationship Dynamics and Personal Boundaries
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Savage Lovecast Episode 900
A man's wife had to quit drinking due to a medical c... more
Jan 23 2024 55m
Disclosing Kinks and Relationship Progression
Chapter 1 12 mins
Polyamory and a New Word
Chapter 2 4 mins
Dating and Gender Identity Challenges
Chapter 3 9 mins
Gender Identity Changes and Sexual Attraction
Chapter 4 6 mins
Navigating Sexual Inhibitions and Pleasure Enhancement
Chapter 5 10 mins
Exploring ABDL Fetish and Partner Reactions
Chapter 6 11 mins
Emerging Kinks and Pineapples in Swinging
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Savage Lovecast Episode 899
A gay man's best friend has such a devastating crush... more
Jan 16 2024 55m
Taking Time After a Breakup
Chapter 1 15 mins
Discussion on Diverse Topics
Chapter 2 10 mins
Questioning Trust in a Relationship
Chapter 3 10 mins
Online Dating and Meeting People Ethically
Chapter 4 8 mins
Navigating Polyamory and Relationship Expectations
Chapter 5 9 mins
Navigating Polyamory
Chapter 6 50 sec
Justice and Love Cast Update
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Savage Lovecast Episode 898
Happy Feast of the Ass for all who celebrate!A gay m... more
Jan 9 2024 52m
Poly Relationship Dilemma
Chapter 1 17 mins
Ass Feast and Relationship Dilemma
Chapter 2 12 mins
Boundary Navigation in Gym and Sex
Chapter 3 5 mins
Challenging Myths and Finding Compatibility
Chapter 4 9 mins
Navigating Relationship Preferences and Boundaries
Chapter 5 7 mins
Navigating Dating Preferences and Co-Parenting Boundaries
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Savage Lovecast Episode 897
A German lesbian was propositioned by a younger grad... more
Jan 2 2024 47m
The Campsite Rule and Heartbreak
Chapter 1 10 mins
Trump's Stink and a Workplace Crush
Chapter 2 5 mins
Navigating Emotional Boundaries and Relationship Dynamics
Chapter 3 9 mins
Trauma Aftermath, Co-Parenting Seeking Advice
Chapter 4 8 mins
Co-Parenting Challenges & Anal Pain
Chapter 5 6 mins
Working Up to Anal Pleasure
Chapter 6 6 mins
Open Relationships, Grooming, and Exes
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Savage Lovecast Episode 896
A lesbian has a terrible bullshit detector. She keep... more
Dec 26 2023 49m
Penile Fractures and Hump Film Festival
Chapter 1 16 mins
Christmas and Sexual Injuries
Chapter 2 13 mins
Navigating Fertility and Decision-Making
Chapter 3 5 mins
Navigating Conventional Wisdom on Holiday Cards
Chapter 4 13 mins
Divorcing Gay Husband, Paying for Podcast
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Holiday Extra: A City on Mars
For this very special Sex & Politics, we invite ... more
Dec 21 2023 53m
Risks of Polydrama in Space
Chapter 1 8 mins
Sex and Politics in Space
Chapter 2 7 mins
Sex, Radiation, and Elon Musk
Chapter 3 12 mins
Challenges of Colonizing Space
Chapter 4 5 mins
Pros and Cons of Space Colonization
Chapter 5 6 mins
The Dolphin Club and Sex
Chapter 6 11 mins
Sex, Relationships, and Space Exploration
Chapter 7 58 sec
Authors of 'A City on Mars' Conversation
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Savage Lovecast Episode 895
Dick pic backfire! When a woman received an image of... more
Dec 19 2023 45m
"Red Flags
Chapter 1 10 mins
Risks of Sharing Intimate Content
Chapter 2 5 mins
Navigating Dating and Social Circles
Chapter 3 14 mins
Online Sugar Mama and STI Worries
Chapter 4 5 mins
Finding BDSM Partners and Exploring Taboos
Chapter 5 9 mins
Incest Fantasies and Nudity Acceptance
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Savage Lovecast Episode 894
A married gay man endured a sexless relationship for... more
Dec 12 2023 50m
Breaking Up
Chapter 1 14 mins
Controversies Surrounding Social Conservatives and Hypocrisy
Chapter 2 4 mins
Sexless Marriage and Infidelity Perceptions
Chapter 3 6 mins
Toxic Relationship Aftermath Navigation
Chapter 4 7 mins
Navigating Relationships and Learning Experiences
Chapter 5 6 mins
Explaining Genital Piercings to Children
Chapter 6 11 mins
Ending a Friends With Benefits Relationship
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Savage Lovecast Episode 893
When drunk friends pounce! A happily married, monoga... more
Dec 5 2023 53m
Considering Divorce in a Non-Monogamous Relationship
Chapter 1 8 mins
Future of Marriage and Political Compatibility
Chapter 2 8 mins
Friendship Boundaries and Sexual Tensions
Chapter 3 9 mins
Navigating Polyamory and Ending Relationships
Chapter 4 6 mins
Navigating Romantic Tension and Communicating Intentions
Chapter 5 14 mins
Supporting a Survivor and Dealing With Infidelity
Chapter 6 5 mins
Talking to Kids About Sex
Chapter 7 1 min
Following Instagram Accounts for Shameless Sex
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Savage Lovecast Episode 892
When telling a hook-up that you don't want to contin... more
Nov 28 2023 47m
Ending a Short-Term Relationship
Chapter 1 9 mins
Navigating Dating Etiquette and Ending Relationships
Chapter 2 9 mins
Navigating Complicated Relationships and Endings
Chapter 3 8 mins
Effects of Age Gap and Manipulation
Chapter 4 6 mins
Conflicted Feelings and Past Bullying
Chapter 5 7 mins
Exploring Intense Feelings and Relationship Choices
Chapter 6 6 mins
Relationship Issues and Language in Communication
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Savage Lovecast Episode 891
A pansexual woman and her new lover got an unpleasan... more
Nov 21 2023 49m
Unexplained and Unpleasant Sexual Behavior
Chapter 1 12 mins
Celebrities and Controversial Scandal
Chapter 2 10 mins
Sexual Health Questions and Relationship Troubles
Chapter 3 8 mins
Struggles With Attraction and Communication Styles
Chapter 4 6 mins
Relationship Compatibility and Making Minor Adjustments
Chapter 5 12 mins
Navigating Differences in Relationship Goals
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Savage Lovecast Episode 890
Cock blocked...by his own sister?! A man and his sis... more
Nov 14 2023 47m
Navigating Dating and Family Dynamics
Chapter 1 9 mins
Teachers' Personal Lives and OnlyFans
Chapter 2 9 mins
Moving on and Exploring New Experiences
Chapter 3 7 mins
Sibling Dynamics
Chapter 4 6 mins
Friend's Approval for Navigating Attraction
Chapter 5 13 mins
Dealing With Political Differences at Work
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